Love Your Enemies

Based on Luke 6:27–36

Have you ever found yourself replaying a hurtful conversation, wishing you had said something sharper or more cutting? Or maybe you’ve quietly cut someone out of your life—not because it was wise or safe, but because it was easier. In Luke 6:27–36, Jesus offers a different way—one that challenges our instincts, disrupts our cycles of retaliation, and calls us to something deeper and harder: mercy.

1. The Nature of Mercy

Mercy is not just passively withholding punishment; it is the active choice to do good, bless, pray for, and show kindness to those who hurt us. It’s not weak or passive—it takes incredible strength and thoughtfulness. Jesus teaches us that mercy isn't natural; it requires us to override our instinct to retaliate. It engages our whole being—our minds, hearts, and even our brains (as neuroscience now confirms!).

Mercy is choosing to end the cycle of hurt. It’s turning the other cheek not to be trampled, but to interrupt the momentum of hate with love.

2. The Cost of Mercy

But let’s be honest—mercy is costly. When David spared Saul’s life, even after being hunted by him, he broke a cycle. But Saul didn't change overnight. David had to keep showing mercy again and again, exposing himself to potential harm. Mercy often feels like a one-sided investment. It rarely guarantees mutuality, healing, or recognition.

Jesus acknowledges this. “Even sinners love those who love them,” he says. The true test of love—the Jesus kind of love—is how we treat those who don’t treat us well. And that’s where it hurts. That’s where it costs.

3. The Reason for Mercy

So why live this way? Why love those who hate us, bless those who curse us, and give generously to those who exploit us?

Jesus gives us two reasons:

  • Your reward will be great. Not in a transactional sense, but in the deep joy and spiritual formation that comes from becoming like God. The reward isn't stuff—it’s transformation.

  • You will be sons and daughters of the Most High. In other words, when we show mercy, we reflect the very character of God. He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil—and when we are too, we live into our true identity as His children.

The gospel truth is this: we were once enemies of God, and yet Christ died for us (Romans 5:6–8). We’re not just called to show mercy—we're recipients of it. And that changes everything.

Reflection Questions

  1. Who in your life has hurt or disappointed you that you might be tempted to avoid or repay? What might it look like to actively show them mercy?

  2. When have you experienced mercy from someone else? How did that shape you?

  3. What fears or instincts tend to rise up when you're mistreated? How might God be inviting you to "give thought" rather than react?

  4. What would change in your life if you truly believed that mercy—not revenge—leads to joy and transformation?

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